because everything is ♥ better with hugs ♥

especially more hugs

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so i went to buy some milk today and this happened

-walks into shop-
girl (to her mother):
ew mum, look at that girl's hair. what do you think's wrong with her? she looks so ugly
there's nothing wrong with her, don't be so rude
but girls shouldn't have short hair, and look at her patches, they're weird
don't you dare talk like that about anyone. you have no idea what she's been through or what her life is like. just because you have long hair, it doesn't make you anymore of a girl or a person than her. i didn't raise you to judge like this

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a guy walked into the board room and said

"hi sweetheart if you could fix me up a coffee real quick im meeting with the regional reports manager in like five minutes, thanks darling"

and i just stared at him and coldly said

"i am the regional reports manager"

we are now twenty minutes into this board meeting and i dont think i’ve ever seen a man look so embarrassed and afraid in my whole life


(Source: sofiajonze, via a-user-named-bayum)

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Anti-Rape Nailpolish

There’s something I have to say about this. I agree, as much as anyone else, that rape prevention should not EVER be a woman’s prerogative. However. This anti-date rape nailpolish is genius. HOWEVER AGAIN. It was an innovation of a woman a couple of years ago. Then, tumblr saw it as genius. Throw money at this, they said. But now that a group of men have made the same thing, it’s a negative, an insult, and puts responsibility onto the wrong party.

What does that say about our perception of feminism? Of rape culture? That when a group of men, who obviously are not rapists, try to someway help, and are demeaned for their efforts. But when a woman does it, it’s genius?

That’s not to say I disagree with the principle, but I just feel there’s a depressing double standard. Credit where credit is due. Take what little we can, what little advancements there are, while society catches up.

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